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We set you up.
No app. No swiping.
We set you up.
No app. No swiping.
We set you up.
A member's club for people who know what they want.
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What is Paloma?
We do the work to help you find your person.
Forget the swiping and looking through a thousand profiles that don’t match your values, drive, and dating intent.
We do the work to help you find your person.
Forget the swiping and looking through a thousand profiles that don’t match your values, drive, and dating intent.
We do the work to help you find your person.
Forget the swiping and looking through a thousand profiles that don’t match your values, drive, and dating intent.




HOW IT WORKS
You apply
Find a current member to nominate you or apply. Tell us about yourself — your passions, your deal breakers, your goals.
Get Approved
We do the work to curate your matches and introduce you over text. Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.
We introduce you
If it’s mutual, we set up the date — no swiping, no ghosting, just meeting.
HOW IT WORKS
You apply
Find a current member to nominate you or apply. Tell us about yourself—your passions, your deal breakers, your wildest dreams.
Get Approved
We do the work to curate your matches and introduce you over text. Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.
We introduce you
If it’s mutual, we set up the date — no swiping, no ghosting, just meeting.
HOW IT WORKS
You apply
Find a current member to nominate you or apply. Tell us about yourself — your passions, your deal breakers, your goals.
Get Approved
We do the work to curate your matches and introduce you over text. Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.
We introduce
If it’s mutual, we set up the date — no swiping, no ghosting, just meeting.

PALOMA MATCHING
We consider multiple factors when matching you with a partner.
We developed a bespoke process to match you based on plurality of your preferences, interests, values and goals.
With feedback on your curated matches, our matching gets smarter and we'll gradually introduce you to more compatible individuals.

PALOMA MATCHING
We consider multiple factors when matching you with a partner.
We developed a bespoke process to match you based on plurality of your preferences, interests, values and goals.
With feedback on your curated matches, our matching gets smarter and we'll gradually introduce you to more compatible individuals.

PALOMA MATCHING
We consider multiple factors when matching you with a partner.
We developed a bespoke process to match you based on plurality of your preferences, interests, values and goals.
With feedback on your curated matches, our matching gets smarter and we'll gradually introduce you to more compatible individuals.
WHO WE ARE FOR
Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.
Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.
We look for
We look for
People who know themselves
and what they want
People who know themselves
and what they want
Openness, curiosity, and depth
Openness, curiosity, and depth
Strong communication
Strong communication
WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT
WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT
( A )
( A )
( A )
Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals
Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals
Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals
( B )
( B )
( B )
Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up
Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up
Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up
( C )
( C )
( C )
Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions
Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions
Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions
What Our Members Say
Paloma feels like a friend setting up a friend, there’s accountability and respect for one another's time.
Anthony
35 y.o
On dating apps, filtering takes forever. With Paloma, I feel heard, and the matches are thoughtfully selected.
It takes so much time to filter for people on dating apps. On Paloma,
I feel heard and the profiles they sent feel curated. I appreciate the curation and thought.
Brett
33 y.o
I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. Paloma does all the work for me - it’s great.
I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. It always feels like a chore. Paloma does all the work
for me - it’s great.
Allison
28 y.o
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
HOW IT WORKS
You apply
Find a current member to nominate you or apply. You tell us about yourself—your passions, your deal breakers, your wildest dreams.
Get Approved
We curate your matches and introduce you over text.
Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.
We introduce you
If it’s mutual, we set up the date—no swiping, no ghosting, just meeting