No app. No swiping.

We set you up.

No app. No swiping.

We set you up.

No app. No swiping.

We set you up.

A member's club for people who know what they want.

Members from

Members from

What is Paloma?

We do the heavy lifting for you.

We do the heavy lifting for you.

We're your well-connected friend

combined with a modern matchmaker.

We're your well-connected friend combined with a modern matchmaker.

We handpick your matches.

We handpick your matches.

Everything happens over text.

Everything happens over text.

WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT

WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT

( A )

( A )

( A )

Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals

Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals

( B )

( B )

( B )

Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up

Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up

( C )

( C )

( C )

Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions

Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions

Why Paloma Works

We're application only and review every single member.

We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.

Why Paloma Works

We're application only and review every single member.

We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.

Why Paloma Works

We're application only and review every single member.

We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.

We Prioritize Communication

We Prioritize Communication

Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.

Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.

That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.

That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.

We check in with you throughout the process.

We check in with you throughout the process.

We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.

We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.

Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.

That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.

We check in with you throughout the process.

We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.

Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.

That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.

We check in with you throughout the process.

We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.

WHO WE ARE FOR

Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.

Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.

We look for

We look for

People who know themselves
and what they want

People who know themselves
and what they want

Openness, curiosity, and depth

Openness, curiosity, and depth

Strong communication

Strong communication

What Our Members Say

Paloma feels like a friend setting up a friend, there’s accountability and respect for one another's time.

Anthony

35 y.o

On dating apps, filtering takes forever. With Paloma, I feel heard, and the matches are thoughtfully selected.

It takes so much time to filter for people on dating apps. On Paloma,

I feel heard and the profiles they sent feel curated. I appreciate the curation and thought.

Brett

33 y.o

I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. Paloma does all the work for me - it’s great.

I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. It always feels like a chore. Paloma does all the work

for me - it’s great.

Allison

28 y.o

We think you deserve the best from a partner.


Someone who gets you...

someone who shares your aspirations.


We know just the type.

We think you deserve the best from a partner.


Someone who gets you...

someone who shares your aspirations.


We know just the type.

We think you deserve the best from a partner.


Someone who gets you...

someone who shares your aspirations.


We know just the type.

Life is better with your person.

Backed by

Life is better with your person.

Backed by

Life is better with your person.

Backed by

Life is better with your person.

Backed by

How it works?

You apply

You tell us about yourselfyour passions, your deal breakers, your wildest dreams.

Get Approved

We curate your matches and introduce you over text.

Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.

We introduce you

If it’s mutual, we set up the dateno swiping, no ghosting, just meeting