Find your person. Not just another match.
Find your person. Not just another match.
Find your person. Not just another match.
Curated introductions to people who align with your vision, no swiping required.
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*Enjoy early access on us
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What is Paloma?
We do the heavy lifting for you.
We do the heavy lifting for you.
We're your well-connected friend
combined with a modern matchmaker.
We're your well-connected friend combined with a modern matchmaker.
We handpick your matches.
We handpick your matches.
Everything happens over text.
Everything happens over text.
WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT
WHEN JOINING, YOU CAN EXPECT
( A )
( A )
( A )
Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals
Curated matches—people who align with your values and life goals
( B )
( B )
( B )
Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up
Effortless coordination—we set up the date, so all you have to do is show up
( C )
( C )
( C )
Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions
Matches that actually meet—no endless chats, just real introductions
Why Paloma Works
We're application only and review every single member.
We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.
Why Paloma Works
We're application only and review every single member.
We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.
Why Paloma Works
We're application only and review every single member.
We look for people like you - driven, thoughtful, and ready for something real.
How it works?
Get Approved
We curate your matches and introduce you over text. Every introduction is intentional, not algorithmic.
We introduce you
We introduce
If it’s mutual, we set up the date — no swiping, no ghosting, just meeting.
Our Thoughtful Process
(A)
(A)
We listen to you
We listen to you
We listen to you
Tell us what matters—your values, lifestyle, and what you’re looking for. Our process goes deeper than surface-level compatibility.
Tell us what matters—your values, lifestyle, and what you’re looking for. Our process goes deeper than surface-level compatibility.
Tell us what matters—your values, lifestyle, and what you’re looking for. Our process goes deeper than surface-level compatibility.
(B)
(B)
Curated Introductions
Curated Introductions
Curated Introductions
Dating shouldn’t feel like a numbers game. We focus on quality over quantity, ensuring every match is intentional.
Dating shouldn’t feel like a numbers game. We focus on quality over quantity, ensuring every match is intentional.
Dating shouldn’t feel like a numbers game. We focus on quality over quantity, ensuring every match is intentional.
(C)
(C)
Facilitated Connections
Facilitated Connections
Facilitated Connections
When we find a great match, we set you up—just like a friend would. No endless chatting, no scheduling headaches—just a text when it’s time to meet someone great.
When we find a great match, we set you up—just like a friend would. No endless chatting, no scheduling headaches—just a text when it’s time to meet someone great.
When we find a great match, we set you up—just like a friend would. No endless chatting, no scheduling headaches—just a text when it’s time to meet someone great.
We Prioritize Communication
We Prioritize Communication
Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.
Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.
That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.
That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.
We check in with you throughout the process.
We check in with you throughout the process.
We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.
We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.
Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.
That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.
We check in with you throughout the process.
We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.
Dating should feel intentional, not chaotic.
That’s why we emphasize clear, respectful communication.
We check in with you throughout the process.
We hold our members accountable—ghosting isn’t tolerated.
WHO WE ARE FOR
Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.
Paloma is a curated platform, not an endless sea of swiping.
We look for
We look for
People who know themselves
and what they want
People who know themselves
and what they want
Openness, curiosity, and depth
Openness, curiosity, and depth
Strong communication
Strong communication
What Our Members Say
Paloma feels like a friend setting up a friend, there’s accountability and respect for one another's time.
Anthony
35 y.o
On dating apps, filtering takes forever. With Paloma, I feel heard, and the matches are thoughtfully selected.
It takes so much time to filter for people on dating apps. On Paloma,
I feel heard and the profiles they sent feel curated. I appreciate the curation and thought.
Brett
33 y.o
I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. Paloma does all the work for me - it’s great.
I love that I can go about my day and not worry about staring into an app. It always feels like a chore. Paloma does all the work
for me - it’s great.
Allison
28 y.o
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
We think you deserve the best from a partner.
Someone who gets you...
someone who shares your aspirations.
We know just the type.
FAQ
What is the cost to join Paloma?
What is the cost to join Paloma?
What is the cost to join Paloma?
What is the cost to join Paloma?
Where is Paloma available?
Where is Paloma available?
Where is Paloma available?
Where is Paloma available?
What is the application process?
What is the application process?
What is the application process?
What is the application process?
What should I expect as a Paloma member?
What should I expect as a Paloma member?
What should I expect as a Paloma member?
What should I expect as a Paloma member?
How do you handle people who stop replying?
How do you handle people who stop replying?
How do you handle people who stop replying?
How do you handle people who stop replying?
Life is better with your person.
Life is better with your person.
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